We Love To: CHANGE 변화는 당신을 행복하게 합니다

Images & Text by Moontain

At different periods of our life, we may feel weakened. Quite often, this is the fear of change acting in us.

We know that others'(or ours) words can have a negative impact, even a longterm one if the people don’t forgive. We can try our best to make the other pardon us, but this remains his/her own personal work.  So the important part is to be able to forgive yourself. All the errors you made, which now you see their real meaning, were friendly, in the end. A precious series of events leading you to more knowledge of your Self(and understanding of the others).

Change is a Positive Movement … 

If the result is not positive for you and others, then this is not “Change”, just you, replacing an opinion with another.

Real change requires a lot of energy but will renew(energy) as well. It seems easier to keep your habits or the old markers of our Life, we all do that, until the need of change is so strong that it explodes. Unfortunately, this kind of context often makes the change come in a violent(and unneeded) way. The accumulation of hesitations leads to an over-reaction that could generate sufferings. But you do not want to hurt yourself or the others, right ? This is the importance of knowing yourself and to act in time, so violence or inner-conflict won’t materialize itself(and won’t be shared).

What an exciting lifetime’s work !

To “end/break” up something is not natural and for sure creates a conflict. But we are all able to transform things when needed, in peace. To care for the other(s) as much as for ourself. There are already so many difficulties on our Journey, we better give our best to evolve with a mutual Loyalty, understandingand respect.

It may be hard at times but with a deep and honest faith in your potential, it should work. Just act with Love, with patience and empathy.

WE HAVE TO BE AN ALLY FOR EACH OTHER

누군가의 말이 평생의 상처가 되어 지울 수 없는 흉터로 남기도 한다. 그리고 그 누군가를 용서 한다고 해도 가슴 속에 남아있는 앙금이 전부 걷히지 않는 것도 또한 사실이다. 때문에 사람들은 누군가를 용서하기 전에 자신의 상태를 진지하게 살펴봐야만 한다.

얼마큼, 어떻게, 어디에 생채기가 났으며 이제는 그 생채기를 객관적으로 바라볼 수 있는  최소한의 준비가 되었는지를. 자신을 용서하라는 의미가 아니다. 오류와 실수, 반목과 갈등의 시발점을 남이 아닌 본인이라고 여기는 사고의 변화가 필요하다는 의미다. 변화는 곧 모든 관계의 전환점이다. 컬쳐엠매거진이 인간의 소통과 변화가 주는 가치를 표현한 프랑스 출신의 작가, 문테인의 작품을 공개한다.

 

 

Contributor, MOONTAIN

French solo artist, MOONTAIN. What drives him is the desire to be and to re-member, as much as the will to share positive waves and insights to help the Change. More detail about him,

음악과 미술, 다양한 예술 분야에서 작가적인 감성을 쌓아온 프랑스 출신의 작가, 문테인. 음악적인 감성과 회화적인 감성이 만나 탄생한 그의 작품을 매달 컬쳐엠매거진이 공개한다.